The Monster...

Ryan now calls my van the most affectionate term possible from a boy...it's "The Monster".

Ryan: Mommy, we are bigger than that blue van next to us
Me: Yes sweetie we do
Jeff: So we are comparing now are we?
Ryan: We are taller than that car too!!
Me: (to Jeff) does that answer your question??
Jeff: (to Ryan) so is it a monster then?
Ryan: yes since we are bigger than the other blue cars on the highway...we're riding in The Monster

So Mommy doesn't drive a mini van anymore...it's "The Monster".

YIKES!!!!

Mini Van Momma

Never in a million years would I consider myself a mini-van person. They drive like school buses (or at least the one that I have tried years ago did).

Jeff and I have been going back and forth since February that we needed one...we needed space in the vehicle especially during the winter months with the kids and their coats. So we researched and looked but never really found anything we liked. If we spent the money on one, we want the vehicle to last for awhile.

So this Momma to three beautiful kids got herself an early Christmas present this year...a beautiful blue Toyota Sienna LE mini-van with some options on it. We picked it up the evening of November 25th from the same dealership that we bought our two Toyota Corollas from. Except this has more doo-dads and whiz-bangs than my 94 Corolla.

I'm officially a mini-van Momma.

Off to learn how to drive my mini-van (just wishing that we didn't find this right as the holiday shopping season was starting)...

What's for Dinner Mommy??

The inevitable question comes from the two oldest kids each late afternoon...what are we having for dinner, Mommy??? And today was no exception.

Ryan: Mmm something smells good...is it Shepherd's Pie, Mommy?
Me: No it's not Shepherd's Pie sweetie
Ryan: I can smell it all the way upstairs...it's NOT Shepherd's Pie???
Me: No it's a Korean dish that Mommy decided to try
Ryan: (screams of delight for almost a minute)
Me: Are you excited?
Ryan: (jumping up and down) Yeah Yeah Yeah!!!!!!!!

What I made is Taktoritang and some rice. I didn't do the spiciness level that they wanted but used 1 tablespoon. All three kids LOVED it immensely...

And quite frankly so did I...

~Jen

Giving of Ourselves to Others in Need

We donated food yesterday morning through the Boy Scouts to the local food pantries. The kids had picked out the food themselves to donate. The Boy Scouts came by our home to pick up the bag full of food. After that we went to the local mall on a playdate since they have a play area. We stayed there for an hour with the kids playing on one thing then rushing to play on another.

After the playdate, we were heading to the food court for lunch however on the way there and in the main part of the mall, we heard bell ringers and a brass band playing Christmas Carols. I immediately asked Jeff for three $1 bills...I knew the bell ringers' bell sound. I knew why they were there. I handed the money out to the kids.

Once we went around the Santa's Workshop building the mall employees were putting up we saw the Salvation Army band playing and saw two women bell ringers and the familiar red kettle. I read earlier this past week that the local Salvation Army needed bell ringers. They are desperate for them.

We walked up to where the band, bell ringers and kettle was and Ryan was the first one up to the kettle however he covered his ears because he didn't like the loud noise of the bells. The ringers noticed this and stopped their bellringing. Ryan placed his dollar into the kettle.

Bella was next and I picked her up to place her dollar bill into the kettle. Katie had helped her push the dollar into the kettle. Katie was next and she placed her dollar bill into the kettle. I stood behind the kids while they were doing this.

I noticed that a professional photographer was taking pictures of us...the kids putting the money into the kettle with me standing behind them. Afterwards, he introduced himself and took our names for one of the local papers (one of course we don't get). He said that he thinks that he thinks the "pictures will appear in tomorrow's (Sunday's) paper". He says that he hopes that Salvation Army will meet their goal of bellringers and of donations this holiday season. And so do we.

After the kids donating the money and our discussion with the photographer, I explained to the kids why we donated the money and put it into the kettle. In the food court, Ryan seem to catch on to everything that we did today...donating food this morning to people who don't have enough and donating money to people who don't have enough food, clothing or a place to sleep.

While waiting for Daddy to come back to the table with our food, he starts shouting out... "free food...free food". I had to explain to him that (1) he had to have food to give food away and (2) yelling free food in a food court wasn't a good thing to do.

While we are eating, we see the brass band walk past us. We caught them at exactly the right moment in time. They are done playing the Christmas carols for the day. They are done collecting money for now at this particular location but they will be back and if we hear the familiar sound of the bell ringing and see the familiar red kettle again, we will be donating money to them again. It's just something that I do each year that I see the red kettle and hear the bell ringers.

Today's newspaper has the article in it on page 3. We went out today to pick up copies of the paper for us. While we are out we are at the same mall again to buy winter boots for Jeff...okay not very interesting. However we were asked if we wanted to donate $2 to March of Dimes while we were checking out the boots. I look at my three kids and respond "yes".

We had a happy weekend this weekend helping others in need. And I'm glad to have helped my children to understand what it means to help another person. I just hope that they grow up helping others on a regular basis.

~Jen

Pumpkin Picking and Halloween Parade

Here's a few pictures from pumpkin picking and our Neighborhood parade!!




Pondering on how you decide on the perfect pumpkin.





"I found a pumpkin, Mommy!!!" Of course she found a better one after this.



Taking it easy while we're trying to pick out our 3 pumpkins!!!


Here's a few pictures from Halloween and our Neighborhood parade!!







Yes sir!! We're behaving for the state police officer.





Helping my Little Sister out with her candy!!



Checking on the candy in the bucket!! Yup it's still there!!!




Me having fun on the parade route still shaking the noisemaker that we got on the beginning.




Look who we found on the parade route!!! Now where is that R2D2 unit????



We dressed up to answer the door for the trick or treaters on Halloween night. Mommy dresses up every year to answer the door for the trick or treaters.

Bella's Song and Dance...Thanks PAPA!!!

Bella has a song and dance that she has been doing for a little while. It's called the Dupa (pronounced like doo pa) Dance and Song. The song has one word in it...and you probably already guessed it...DUPA!!!! For those of you that are Polish reading this, you might know the meaning of the word. For the rest of you just ask me privately and I'll let you know.

I do know that we can thank my dad (her Papa) for this one. He mentioned the word to her on several occasions.

One two three...THANKS DAD!!!!! THANKS PAPA!!!!

I'm crawling back into my hole now due to embarrassment...

~Jen

Conversations with Bella

Me: Are you a good girl today?
Bella: No
Me: Are you a bad girl today?
Bella: Yeah (then smiling and laughing from her)

Similar conversation 15 minutes later...

Me: Are you a good girl today?
Bella: No
Me: Are you a bad girl today?
Bella: No
Bella: (laughing over the puzzled look on my face)
Me: Okay Bella I'm not sure how to take that one
Bella: (still giggling)

Me: Bella please get off the computer
Bella: I workin (she is opening and closing the cd tray and "typing" furiously at the computer)
Me: You're working??
Bella: Yeah I workin

We'll chalk it up to a Wacky Wednesday...

~Jen